by Chinkee Tan | Mar 6, 2020 | Good Advice
Chinkee, I do not want to go to work anymore! I no longer want to fight for this business! I cannot see any meaning in my work anymore! Before you give up and breakdown, let me say that what you are feeling is completely understandable. I have felt that, too. I was...
by Chinkee Tan | Feb 28, 2020 | Good Advice
Chinkee, why is it so hard to quit my vices? Why is it so difficult to win over procrastination? This is hopeless! Better be back to my old habits than be frustrated! I understand your frustration. There is nothing about change that is comfortable. Actually, change is...
by Chinkee Tan | Feb 21, 2020 | Good Advice
Let me guess, here’s your plan for every love month: – Surprise my love with a bouquet of flowers and a heart-shaped box of chocolates – Watch a movie – Eat at a fine dining restaurant and chat over glasses of expensive wine Of course, you don’t stop...
by Chinkee Tan | Feb 14, 2020 | Good Advice
Cue in Tootsie Guevarra: Mr. Kupido, ako nama’y tulungan mo. Ba’t hindi panain ang kanyang damdamin. At nang ako ay mapansin. Mr. Kupido, sa kanya’y dead na dead ako. Huwag mo nang tagalan ang paghihirap ng puso ko. [Mr. Cupid, help me. Why not hit his heart so he can...
by Chinkee Tan | Feb 7, 2020 | Good Advice
“It’s already 2020 and you are still single?!” “When are going to have a boyfriend/girlfriend?!” “When are you going to get married?!” The pressure to have a romantic relationship seems overwhelming. Sometimes we dread going to our family reunions because our titas...