by Chinkee Tan | Feb 29, 2016 | Good Advice
Have you experienced a pain? Have you been hurt? How did you face it? Did you just keep the pain to yourself, as if it didn’t happen? If your answer is yes, why are you avoiding it? Why are you afraid to talk about it? The pain we feel from negative experiences is...
by Chinkee Tan | Feb 26, 2016 | Good Advice
When you feel hungry, what do you eat? “Instant noodles.” When you need to research about something, where do you go to? “Google, of course.” When you need to relay a message to someone, how do you contact him or her? “Text or messenger.” What about if you are not...
by Chinkee Tan | Feb 24, 2016 | Good Advice
Do you know of someone who doesn’t seem to have a conscience at all? I’m not just referring to criminals, but to those who hurt the feelings of others and don’t feel any regret or remorse. Like what, Chinkee? – You treated them well and gave in to what they...
by Chinkee Tan | Feb 21, 2016 | Good Advice
Are you losing your self-confidence? Do your mistakes seem like they won’t ever end? Do you feel like you have no hope in making up for past failures? I have good news for you! If you feel like you can’t do it, that’s just it – a feeling. Feelings are deceiving and it...
by Chinkee Tan | Feb 15, 2016 | Good Advice
Is this your usual answer whenever someone asks how you are? Even though you don’t feel good, you still say, “I’m okay.” “I’m okay” or “I’m fine” is the default response of most people even if they are not doing okay or fine. Why? Maybe they do not want to bother...
